In the present economy, satisfying all the desires on your child’s wish list may be a challenge. But lose the guilt if you need to cut back this year — the best gift you can give your child is a trove of holiday memories with you, memories that don’t include anxiety about your family finances. In this video, I’ll tell you why tightening your belt during the holidays is not only possible but may have a silver lining when it comes to the message you’re sending your children.