Posts From: October 2009

Tips for Supporting Teens with their Applications

 
collegeessaypostDear Annie,
 
I have a 17-year-old daughter who is applying to college. She’s a great kid, but I’m really worried that given how competitive it is these days to get into a good school, she isn’t going to be able to get all her strengths across if she writes her essay herself. What’s your advice?
 
Melissa
 
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kindhomeworkpostDear Annie,

My five-year-old son has just started kindergarten, and his teacher tells us he has trouble completing all of his work. She said that she knows he is very smart and knows how to do the project but it takes him longer than the other kids to finish assignments. We notice this at home also when he is doing homework. He knows the answer but acts like he doesn’t know or just stares at the paper. What can we do to help him besides encouraging him and could this be something wrong with his thought process?

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Your salad spinner might just become your child’s favorite art supply. Watch how to turn your spinner, some tempera paint, and a few sheets of paper into a fantastically fun lesson in mixing colors. 

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 This tip and other excellent toilet teaching advice.

 

pottytrainingpostWhen it comes to potty training, the bottom line (no pun intended) is that the process is full of triumphs and challenges. For every successful flush, you can expect an accident or two. And with so many tips, techniques, and promises (“Diaper free in less than a day!”), it can be a struggle for Mom and Dad to navigate the toilet teaching terrain. Which is why I recently interviewed Beth Grosshans, Ph.D., child psychologist and the author of Beyond Time-Out: From Chaos to Calm, to see what she believes are the most important steps on the way to reaching this child development milestone. She offered the following helpful advice:
 
Children are generally ready for potty training between the ages of two to three-and-a-half. When your child turns two, pick up a few books that talk about bodily functions in a matter-of-fact way, like Everyone Poops by Taro Gomi. Keep your expectations in check, however; actually using the potty still might be a ways off.
 
Success depends much less on which method you choose than the attitude you adopt. The more relaxed you can be, the more you’ll help your child learn. Teach the basics by talking, reading books, setting out a potty, even modeling how it’s done. But it’s your child’s job — and hers alone — to learn how.
 
Look for these signs of readiness: can stay dry for two hours, shows a willingness to cooperate, can follow simple instructions, has regularity of bowel function, can pull pants down independently.
 
Don’t be intimidated by peer pressure! Your child needs his own internal motivation for toileting to really work. “Believe, me,” says Dr. Gosshans. “Your neighbor’s child’s success will have zero consequence on your son’s or daughter’s progress.”
 
For more salient potty tips, check out my interview with Dr. Grosshans below:
 

 

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sleepnursingpostDear Annie,
 
My 8-month-old baby will only fall asleep while nursing, making it almost impossible to get her to sleep in her crib. I am not against co-sleeping but I’m worried that it’s not safe, and I really want her in the crib for naps. Is crying it out my only option? Thanks!


Kelly
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Help your son get lost in a book with these titles.
 

boysreadingblogLearning to read is a thrilling achievement, but not every kid blossoms into a bibliophile. Boys are often reluctant readers, and I’m often asked by their parents to suggest books that are especially appealing to guys. In general, boys gravitate toward male themes, especially stories that feature a hero or historical character whose exploits were "really true." Humor (especially the kind that makes Mom cringe) is always a hit with boys — even some adult boys I know — and, of course, books that cater to a particular sport or hobby or music genre can do the trick.  Below are some of my favorites, along with titles that my friends at the Scholastic Book Fairs tell me are especially popular. Even if your son is reading on his own, make a point of reading together or reading to him; Nick and I spent a wonderful August reading Phillip Pullman’s "His Dark Materials" series.  We still talk about those wonderful books. 

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Here’s a neat trick to do with your kids in the kitchen — and teach them science at the same time. All you’ll need is a hard-boiled egg, an empty glass bottle, and a little vegetable oil. Watch the video below to see how to make your kids shriek with delight!

 

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cover-what-i-thought-i-knewIt’s rare for a memoir to read like a thriller but Alice Eve Cohen’s new book, What I Thought I Knew, does just that. Continue reading

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Research shows when your toddler’s vocabulary will take off.

girltalkingThe average toddler says a handful of words by his first birthday, and continues adding a few on a daily basis. Neuroscientists have figured out that once your little one has mastered roughly 50 words, a language explosion will begin and he’ll regularly surprise you with new adorably pronounced (or mispronounced) words.

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